Shelley Lubben is Looking for a Sugar Daddy Age 30 to 70

The woman who lost her marriage after cheating with a groundsman then tried to set up her husband of 20 years for felony bribery; who accused her boyfriend of rape and assault; whose scandal-plagued nonprofit was shuttered; whose boyfriend is now in prison for DUI vehicular homicide; whose home burned to the ground in a drug lab fire; and who is currently named in three court cases writes "I am easy going and stay away from drama."

Visalia, Calif. -- Here at The Devil And Shelley Lubben, we talk a lot about justice, but we also hope to spread peace love and joy, and -- with the Holiday Season is upon us -- some good cheer as well.

Behold disgraced anti-porn and anti-prostitution crusader Shelley Lubben's "sugaring" profiles. Sugaring, as we know, is the "wink-wink" version of prostitution. There's a legal distinction between the two, granted, but not an ethical one. In practice they are generally the same thing.

As author and sex work activist Maggie McNeill writes:
Sugaring . . . is just underpaid escorting. This isn’t to say that it’s impossible to find decent long-term patrons on Seeking Arrangement and other such platforms; I have an ad there myself, as do several of my friends, because their “no escorts” policy is a laughable smoke screen designed to hide the fact that sugaring is a form of sex work.

If you accept money for sex, even in a "sugar" context, you can be convicted of prostitution unless you and your partner are willing to lie about your arrangement. You might get off the hook if the authorities don't have any other evidence to use against you (e.g., your private messages on the sugaring site, etc.).

Sugaring sites have always been littered with sex worker profiles, and many more sex workers have turned to these sites in the wake of the government crackdown on online sex adverts.

For this reason, the government has run prostitution stings on sugaring websites.

Shelley Lubben spent the last 15 years shaming, defaming and excoriating sex workers of all shades; she made it her career and was one of many hypocrites who profited off of them while doing so.

Here are two of Shelley Lubben's known "sugar dating" profiles:

About Me
I am a beautiful and intelligent woman who is educated, has traveled the world, loves fine dining and yet I am also very adventurous and spontaneous. I'm seeking a male companion with a great personality and who is generous and loves to spoil. I love to spoil back! I love to cook, am outdoorsy but also love to glam up and enjoy a night on the town. I have three degrees and one is at a Doctorate level. I am also an author and enjoy writing books, short stories and poetry as well enjoy music and play guitar. I love to laugh and have a very dynamic personality. I am easy going and stay away from drama. I will pamper the man who pampers me. I am very generous, caring and authentic. I hope I'm what you are looking for in a beautiful woman.

What I'm Looking For
The companion I seek is someone who has similar qualities to me:
adventurous or spontaneous
loves to travel
enjoys fine dining and seeing new places
loves the finer things in life
has a sweet temperament
loves to spoil and be spoiled back
a man who is generous and classy
preferably a man who owns or runs his own business and has means
someone who will cuddle with me and who is sensual
If that's you please don't hesitate to message me

As you can see, Shelley -- who is 50 not 45, and looks far older in person -- has an unjustifiably high opinion of herself. Her self-description and moniker "realprettyblonde" remind me of one of her business cards from her porn and prostitution days in Southern California in the 1980s and 90s.

Remember all of this the next time someone tells you how Shelley Lubben is a changed woman.


  1. What a shame. I looked her up to donate to her foundation. I previously donated books from Amazon. It looks like she fell into drugs again and so disappointing she died a drug related death. She had a great underlying message and despite wrong choices and bizarre behavior the message itself remains the same
    . The porn industry is an affront to God. Tons of well spoken porn actors may make statements and appear very stable and actually be stable but it doesnt mean that there isnt harm in the business. When one is still involved and that is all one has for livelihood when society is not kind to those exitinh the industry many individuals remain. Shelley went about many things the wrong way it appears. You don't aggressively pursue people to get them out of the porn industry nor use any of the other strong arm tactics. Thats the devils work. People have freedom of choice for a reason. It appears drugs led her to decline in a very real way. She also seemed unstable in many ways yet it doesn't mean her underlying premise is wrong. Rest in Peace Shelley.

  2. Forgot to add how very sad her daughter died so young what a tragedy. Also sad her marriage ended in such a mess and someone lost their life in an tragic accident. I hope my donated books made a difference somewhere with someone. 💗💗

  3. Diane I agree. I followed Pink Cross for sometime dealing with my own addictions. I watched all her videos and was like WOW. What a warrior. I felt she was fighting a good cause. As time went on I heard she had an affair and was getting divorced. How sad 20 years of marriage and it was over. I had found videos Michael Whiteacre had posted it was hard to take but the lies Shelley had told and Pink Cross was not what I thought it was. I will NEVER understand how a mother can walk away from children she gave birth too no matter how sick she was. Listening to the recorded message where she threatened to kill that woman was UNBELIEVABLE. This was a warrior for God? I am sure God was looking down and shaking his head. It is just all so sad and so hard to comprehend how her life took such a fall. The hardest thing is she died ALONE. I pray and hope she has found peace and is with her daughter.

  4. Hallo Michael Whiteacre check out this channel. There you will also find new videos about Shelley Lubben and Sindy Sunshine. Sindy Sunshine was also an employee of Shelley. She tries to continue the evil work of Shelley Lubben in Germany. But it all came to light.

  5. A black handsome guy fell into the ditch of porn in the year 2005. In the year 2006 RL Bond quit porn and left gay porn studio Corbin Fisher without regrets. He did not turn back ever since. He became a successful model and now he is a dignified yoga teacher. Shelly should have done the same.